How to Make Your Wedding Ceremony Feel Truly ‘You’ | Brisbane Wedding Celebrant
our wedding day should feel like your day — not just another boring, cookie-cutter ceremony. As one of the top Brisbane wedding celebrants, I know how to turn a ceremony from “nice” to “OMG that was amazing.” The best weddings feel like you — your quirks, your love story, and all the messy, funny, beautiful moments that make you you. So, how do you create a wedding ceremony that feels authentic and true to you both? Let’s dive in:
💖 1. Start with Your Story
The heart of any great wedding ceremony is the story behind it.
How did you meet?
What were the little moments that made you realize you’d found your person?
What challenges have you faced together, and how did you grow from them?
This is where I come in. As a professional wedding celebrant in Brisbane, it’s my job to tell your love story in a way that feels so you. I’ll send you a questionnaire with all the juicy questions (think: how you met, embarrassing first dates, the moment you knew it was love), and from there, I’ll craft an epic story to share with your guests.
Example: Instead of “We met through mutual friends,” try “We met at a trivia night where I answered every question wrong — except the one about Taylor Swift, which clearly sealed the deal.”
🎶 2. Personalize the Music
Music sets the tone — so ditch the generic wedding playlist and choose songs that actually mean something to you both.
Walk down the aisle to the song you first danced to in your kitchen.
Get a DJ that can sing too — like Lauren K Hyland — to really elevate the vibe and keep everyone entertained.
Don’t be afraid to mix it up — classical music isn’t a requirement!
Tip: One couple I married walked down the aisle to Fleetwood Mac’s “Everywhere” and danced out to Beyoncé’s “Love on Top.” Iconic.
🥲 3. Write Your Own Vows (Even if You’re Not a Writer)
Nothing hits harder than personal vows. Keep it simple — speak from the heart, make it casual, and don’t be afraid to throw in a little humor (trust me, everyone loves a laugh).
Mention what you love most about your partner.
Include a promise or two (serious and funny).
Keep it under 2 minutes — short and sweet wins every time.
Example: “I promise to always make you coffee in the morning — even though you make it better than me. And I promise to love you through every season, even when you steal the blankets.”
✅ Check out my guide on writing wedding vows
✨ 4. Include Meaningful Readings (or Skip Them Altogether)
Readings are a great way to include family or friends — but if a traditional poem doesn’t feel like you, switch it up.
Ask a friend to read song lyrics or an excerpt from your favorite book.
Try a funny or heartfelt quote from a movie you both love.
If it feels forced — leave it out. Your ceremony, your rules.
✅ Need help picking the perfect reading?
🥂 5. Make the Exit Unforgettable
The ceremony sets the whole vibe for the rest of the day — so why not go out with a bang?
Have guests throw petals or confetti as you walk back down the aisle.
Play an upbeat song that makes people want to dance.
Surprise your guests with a champagne pop or sparklers.
Example: One of my couples ended their ceremony with a champagne toast right there at the altar — and honestly, it was a vibe.
❤️ Final Thoughts
Your wedding ceremony isn’t just an event — it’s the beginning of an epic new chapter. The more personal and real you make it, the more it’ll hit everyone right in the feels. And if you need help making it unforgettable… well, I know a celebrant who can make that happen. 😉
